A Study of The Relationship between Parental Self-perceived Emotional Accommodation and Children''s Perceived Parental Emotional Expression.

• Main Authors: Wan-Ru Hsieh, 謝琬如
• Other Authors: 楊明磊
• Format: Others
• Language: zh-TW
• Published: 2018
• Online Access: http://ndltd.ncl.edu.tw/handle/2xf86h

碩士 === 淡江大學 === 教育心理與諮商研究所碩士班 === 106 === The purpose of this study is to explore how parents perceive their self-emotional accommodation how their children perceive the relationship between parents'' emotional expression. This paper is a qualitative oriented research, related data were collected through semi-structured depth interview and analyzed by grounded theory. All 6 participants, including 3 pairs different family (2 mothers, 1 fathers and 3 children). At last, the conclusions of this paper are described as following: 1. The eternal children''s role in Chinese culture, making parents the scapegoats of parent-child relationship conflicts. (1) When family members interpret the events differently, they may have completely different feelings. (2) The higher emotion accommodation ability that parents has, the greater quantity of parent-children relationship have. (3) The rigidity of parents'' emotional accommodation may make the parent-child relationship conflict. 2. The parent-child relationship is "harmony" rather than "intimate": Even though it won’t get worse if family members lacks of communication, the distance between parents and children may not be brought closer. 3. The role of eternal children in Chinese culture, expecting parents to make changes in the relationship: Parental expression model will affect children''s emotional response and willingness to communicate, and the effectiveness of conflict resolution. 4. Parents who emphasize "harmony" do not emphasize " intimate ", and their children demonstrate a desire for "intimacy" with "obedience": Suppressing expression emotions may appear on parents or children and can delay relationship conflicts, but it does not see long-term benefits.