From Myself Towards Others, Planting Benevolence as a Seed and Grows into a Tree: Understanding and Awareness of Contradictions and Breaks in Life, Facing genuinely and Manifest a Harmonious Common Source in Life Stream.

• Main Authors: Fang Ko-Ting, 方可廷
• Other Authors: Wong Kai-cheng
• Format: Others
• Language: zh-TW
• Published: 2018
• Online Access: http://ndltd.ncl.edu.tw/handle/27r8fb

碩士 === 輔仁大學 === 心理學系 === 106 === This essay begins with the awareness of my repeating lost in relationships, and tries to figure out what happened to myself. Through self-narrative, I genuinely face different difficulties in relationships. The process of understanding myself (Zhong), gradually leads me towards understanding others’ stories (Shu). Being aware of the contradictions and the breaks in my life and others makes me face my life experiences genuinely and also use narrative as an approach in counseling to inspire the beauty of oneself and others. In my early childhood memories, I figure out there is a metaphoric symbol which represents my life experiences, and found out that within every break lies the harmony of Yin and Yang in my life. Through this understanding and awareness, I look back in every story and discover that this kind of harmony also lies in everyone. With this understanding, it manifests the basic and common nature of human being – benevolence(Ren). I anticipate myself to carry this understanding of life experiences and to continually empathy others and myself and live endless.