Social support experiences of Adult women's Adjustment Process of break-up.

• Main Author: 洪靜瑜
• Other Authors: 賀孝銘
• Format: Others
• Language: zh-TW
• Published: 2016
• Online Access: http://ndltd.ncl.edu.tw/handle/78339071942646581587

碩士 === 國立彰化師範大學 === 輔導與諮商學系所 === 104 === This research goal is to understand the experiences and effect of being social supported in the process of accommodation for breaking-up in the relationship of romance of woman who were passively separated in the romantic breakup with Qualitative approach. The researcher use semi-structured depth interview method, collecting respondents’ connotations of experience, and integrate them with Scenario analysis and category Analysis. All 5 participants (2 college student, 3 graduate student) suffer passively separated in the romantic breakup in the recent 2 years, and percived themselves have gone through the process of accommodation for breaking-up in the relationship of romance. Four results are found: (1)effective social supports are listening, accompanying, doing breakup related(or unrelated) activity.(2) ineffective social supports are blaming heartbreaker, refuse the heartbreaker’s need of accompany, which make them more frustrated, (3)in the beginning of process of accommodation for breaking-up in the relationship of romance, the heartbreaker feels lonely, at the meantime, supporter’s listening and accompany is the most important; in the middle stage, heartbreaker’s emotion become smooth, activities which can distraction from loss(e.g., travel) is effective. Since that the heartbreaker is reformatting their self-concept, if the supporter argue that they are trapped in the emotion, the heartbreaker prone to perceived the discussion as blaming them, which is ineffective; in the later period, the heartbereaker start new life and growth, less support were needed, flexible supports is effective(e.g., responsing to catharsis, self growth discussion ); supporter failing to recognize and understand heartbreaker’s emotion is ineffective.(4) In the distinction of social support, the intimacy of the supporter and the heartbreaker influence the effectiveness of social support, close family and friends are the most effective, people who easy to get along with (face to face), make the heartbreaker feel safe are also effective. Conclusion: According to these result, researcher proposed some responses to the past researches of being the heartbreaker’s company. Possible future research directions and recommendations are also discussed.