| Summary: | 碩士 === 國立臺中教育大學 === 諮商與應用心理學系碩士班 === 103 === The study is to explore the intimate relationship of unmarried adult females who experience the loss of Parent-child Relationship during Childhood. According to qualitative research approach, the researcher adopts purposeful sample to carry semi-structured interviews with three unmarried adult couples, and the data was analyzed through the phenomenology method. The results of this research were as follows:
1.According the perspective of the unmarried adult females who experience the loss of Parent-child Relationship during Childhood, the effects of interpersonal Aspects of intimate relationship on the loss parent-child relationship include：
(1) Negative self-concept－Worthlessness, and (2) the scapegoat which the venting objects of caregivers, and (3) the character different form mother, which become strong in order to protect self, and (4) ignore and oppressive and isolate the emotion to protect self. On the relational needs, the effects include：(1) lack of love－a feeling of not belonging, not be regarded and cared, and (2) hunger for love and recognition, and (3) lack of security－hoped to be protected to avoid being discarded, and (4) transference the bad feelings from her father to the other males.
2.According the perspective of the unmarried adult females who experience the loss of Parent-child Relationship during Childhood, the traits in the intimate relationship were included：(1) negative self-concept, and (2) feeling guilty to lovers, and (3) hope to self-change in the intimate relationship, and (4) oppose the intimate relationship of authority, and (5) need sense of security beloved, cared, and (6) to need commitment in the intimate relationship to avoid being discarded, and (7) feel the sense of insecurity in the intimate relationship, and (8) in order to know how I am cherished, lovers attack through language or emotion and lead the pressure to her company , and (9) hard to feel the love satisfied, lead company felt upset, and (10) feel admitted and had corrective experience from the intimate relationship, and (11) gain autonomous and independent of the intimate relationship, and (12) gain the power from the intimate relationship, and (13)take good care of their company for gaining their repays, and (14) accept the negative emotions from their company, and (15) hope oneself to become a good taker in the intimate relationship, and (16) fear that company enraged.
3.The better half indicated the unmarried adult females who experience the loss of Parent-child Relationship during Childhood, the traits of interpersonal Aspects in the intimate relationship include：(1) Self-accusation, and showed the strong character. On the relational needs, the effects include：(1) lack of sense of security and love, (2) tolerated by company, and (3) need to be cared and security all around, and (4) present to attack and get angry at company.
4.On the whole, when the loss experience involved intimate relationship of unmarried adult females, that the trait would be：(1) turned to ask the company for loving, and (2) the sense of security satisfied by the company, and (3) used wrong way to get company’s loves, and let company tolerance decrease.
Explanations for these results, this study provides proposals, direction for future research and helps workers to make a reference.
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