Summary: | 碩士 === 東吳大學 === 社會學系 === 100 === This research begins with Norbert Elias's study of civility, and reinterprets different interpersonal relationships. I believe that a person cannot achieve his/her goal without the help of others, thus he/she keeps changing his/her behaviour mentally while communicating with other people, and speculating on their possible reaction. In view of this, I have distinguished the strategic models; namely, "tolerance"、"cleaning"、"hiding" from the concept of patience which are discussed in this study.
In addition, I have explored the unconventional views of Chuang Tzu and Osho on the concepts of patience, namely, tolerance. Unlike patience, tolerance involves comprehending life. A person should be aware that scheming only diminishes life patterns. Despite the scheming, there are still some unforeseen circumstances. It is only when people abandon scheming that they can have a deeper comprehension of life.
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