Summary: | 碩士 === 輔仁大學 === 兒童與家庭學系碩士班 === 99 === From my experience and take it extended to other adult-son, the purpose of this research is trying to get realized that how they explain their affective interactions between them and their fathers. We invite three adult-sons who is at the period of earlier adult stage. We get the analyzed-information from half-structured interview of qualitative research. At last, we analyze the information by the way of narrative analyzed. Total invite 3 men to participate this research, age from 25~30. Collage graduated at least.
"From behind to side by side" is a symbolic of the relationship in father and son. We find that not only time increasing can make them getting closer but also the grow up of their mind. They try to learn more about effective expression, and think maturely to each other. In adult sons’ mind, they take more empathy and positive thinking to understand the past of their fathers. It makes them realized more about their fathers, and lead their fathers to upgrowth themselves. The intimacy and right between father and son will be turned back because the sons’ interpretation of their fathers.
We find that the research participators care more about getting "identification" from their fathers rather than getting warm. It shows that be identified is the most important thing in the affective interaction and sons do care about that. Comparing with before, fathers in now days show more inter-affection by saying and show how they love their family and their sons, and they will present it with humorous to avoid some unknown embarrassment in the family interaction.
At last, we will provide our suggestion in practice and research ways.
Key words: affective interaction, empathy, masculinity, exchange of intimacy and right
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