The present and prospect of Love － The sublimation of parent-child relationship

• Main Author: 楊素芳
• Other Authors: 方德隆
• Format: Others
• Language: zh-TW
• Published: 2010
• Online Access: http://ndltd.ncl.edu.tw/handle/08686015327141624981

碩士 === 高雄師範大學 === 教育學系 === 98 === The home-based action research proceed by a mother with aspiration but agency not enough, originated in parents’ adopted background and parent-children relationship is the most desirable fulfillment. The feeling hinges off gradually and the impact on in-service education are the main motive for the study. The goals of this study could classify into three objections: to improve the children’s inappropriate behaviors that worsen the parent-children relationship, to modify the mother’s breeding mode for children that separated the combinations, and to improve the mutual adherence is the final target. For these objections, the strategies are the behavior modification, text communication and home-meeting, and fulfillment of parent-child time used during the study going. The results from this study as following: 1. For the dimension of behavior modification： we can find some promotions in hygiene habit, rules, security and health, charter, homework share, and learning mode. It shows that the outside enforcement may have some effect especially on the instant modification, but if we want to cultivate the behavior mode gradually that we must place importance on soul-communication. 2. For the dimension of text communication and the home-meeting： the ways of heart communication that to promote the family spirit including composition writing, diary, the use of internet, that make words to be the media that to promote the communication and parent-child affection. Through these strategies, however, the mother nurtured new position including emotion management, offering encouragement, controlling the sentiments, alternation of autocratic and stubborn habits. There are progresses into good level in the educating assistance and the position , but not enough, and still have space for future enforcement. 3. For the area of fulfillment of parent-child time: by the diversity way of parent-child time, the family relationship slowly warmed up from the bottom and still in the way, but not enough for perfection. 4. For the home-based action research: cultivated the most impressive circle of unified force of family and strived for future well-being, and for the sustainable development of love action. The results and suggestions are following: 1. There are no good or bad for behaviorism, however, we can get the true interior change from the appreciation of our children. 2. So wonderful the text communication is！ Writing is so easy. It may enforce text ability and make communication better from daily-life in family. 3. Encountering in love, cherishing the time with family, constructed the bliss feelings. 4. Action research could start in family, parents with whom children first studied, home in whom children first studied, and the basic for exquisite society should originate the cultivation of character in family. 5. The efficient management of family could be achieved for in-service education parents by application of self privacy method.