Summary: | 本研究目的係為探討新移民母親參與親子共讀團體後,其在自我認同、親子關係,以及對家庭關係上之變化。本研究採質性為主,量化為輔的方法。質性研究以深度訪談和參與觀察方式;量化研究以前-後測之親子共讀問卷瞭解新移民母親在分數上的變化。九位受訪者以立意和滾雪球抽樣取得。主要研究結果如下:
在「原生家庭對新移民女性在教養子女的影響」方面:新移民女性作為孩子的主要照顧者,並非為全職家務工作者,且新移民女性與台灣先生、夫家和原生娘家的相處情形,會受到原生家庭中母親與父親及上一代公婆、娘家的互動模式影響;在「自我認同的轉變」方面:新移民女性渴望得到來自夫家或社會的認同,因此,她們對於養育或管教子女的自我要求極為嚴苛,孩子的成就代表她們人生的成功。並用真誠信任且開放的態度去面對團體中的領導者、協同領導者和其他團體成員時,其越能得到較多的社會支持與正向感受;在「提昇親子關係」方面,從質化與量化加以說明:質化方面:當新移民親子溝通和互動關係變好,在教養上就會順利許多。量化方面:研究採個人之自我分數對照方式,深入瞭解每位受訪者的改變。在「家庭關係和諧」方面:先生非常支持太太上課學習,並願意建立有效夫妻溝通模式,此也影響新移民女性跟夫家和娘家的互動關係。
最後,針對新移民女性及家庭的需求對實務工作、服務體系及未來研究等三方面提出相關建議,作為未來實務工作、政策制定以及研究之參考。
=== Abstract
The research discusses the change of self-recognition, parent-child relationship, and family relationship after new immigrant mothers join in the parent-child reading group. This qualitative research, deep interview and observation, is assisted with quantitative method, pre- and post- test parent-child reading questionnaire to understand the score changing of new immigrant mothers. 9 respondents were selected from judgment and snowball sampling. The main results are as follows:
In the aspect of “the influence of original family on the new immigrant female when raising child”: new immigrant female is the main care taker of the child, not full time house chores doer. Also, the living situation of the new immigrant female with their husband, in-laws, and original family is affected by the interaction between their parents from the original family and the in-laws and the original family of last generation. In the aspect of “the changing of self-recognition”: new immigrant female long for recognition from the husband’s family or the society. Therefore, they are hard on themselves in raising or disciplining the child. The achievement of the child is their life success. When they face the leader, the co-leader, and other group members with sincere, trust, and open attitude, they can have more positive social support and feeling. We explain the aspect of “increasing parent-child relationship” qualitatively and quantitatively. In qualitatively, when the communication and interaction between the parent and child of the new immigrant is better, the raising and teaching will be smoother. In quantitatively, the research contrast personal scores and deeply understand the changing of each respondent. In the aspect of “family harmony”: the husband supports the wife to learn and is willing to build effectively couple communication model, which has also influence the interaction of the new immigrant female with the in-laws and the original family.
Finally, we propose related suggestions on the need of the new immigrant female and the family in the aspects of practical works, service system, and future research as the reference for future practical work, policy stipulation, and research.
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