PERAN ORANG TUA DALAM MEMBANGUN KEPRIBADIAN ANAK

• Main Author: Arsam Arsam
• Format: Article
• Language: English
• Published: IAIN Purwokerto 2015-03-01
• Series: Komunika
• Subjects: dakwah; methods of preaching in the family; children character
• Online Access: http://ejournal.iainpurwokerto.ac.id/index.php/komunika/article/view/342

One of parents’ roles in family life is delivering religious values. This can be applied in the family in three methods, bilhikmah (wisely), bilmauidzhoh hasanah (with good advice), and bilmujadalah (with exchange thoughts). These methods are applied in order to form good character of children. In applying this method effectively and efficiently, parents as a performer da’i should apply ten guidance for da’i. The ten rules are: 1) parents should provide exemplary before preaching; 2) parents should have good impression; 3) parents should explain before giving some assignment/task; 4) parents have to apply some phases in giving tasks; 5) parents should facilitate rather than complicate; 6) the principles should be given before the branch; 7) parents should motivate rather than threat; 8) parents should encourage rather than dictate; 9)parents should educate rather than expose; 10) parents should emphasize students to from their teacher rather than from books.